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How to choose a mediator?

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Mediation – an alternative to Court litigation that is gaining traction

When a serious dispute arises, the common response is to instruct lawyers immediately and to take the battle straightaway into the Courtroom. This may be the preference of many who have no faith that the dispute can be resolved. In recent times however, disputants are awakening to another option that is less costly and oftentimes speedier than litigation.

Mediation is fast gaining traction as an alternative to Court litigation with a credible rate of success. And indeed, when parties are prepared to take a less battle-like stance, mediation is an excellent pathway to peace.

How then do parties increase their chances of finding success in mediation? We suggest that the starting point is to apply some effort in your search for a suitable mediator for your case.

Three important qualities of a mediator

Let’s be first reminded that the mediator’s role is a facilitative one. His/her core responsibility is to guide the disputants through their issues and be in their aid to find for themselves an agreeable outcome. Being in such a facilitative role, it is integral for the mediator to have certain qualities. We suggest a few important ones:

Quality 1 – Neutrality and independence

It is imperative for the negotiation process to be facilitated by one who does not take any one party’s side. A good mediator has no desire to take sides. He/she will restrain himself/herself from making judgment against one party or to prefer one party to another. Why is this so? Because it is untenable for a mediator to confuse the disputants that he/she has any adjudication function. A good mediator knows that if there is no neutrality in the mediation process, it is impossible for the parties to find the safe space within which to speak frankly and to explore settlement options.

Quality 2 – Ability to build rapport

Being personable is a quality that is often underrated. Being in the close company of disputing parties is often an unpleasant experience. No one looks forward to meeting his nemesis. Having a personable mediator facilitate the negotiations can alleviate the discomfort in this process to a large degree. Having excellent listening, understanding and communication skills are also key requirements. Why are these skills and qualities important? Because all these go towards the building of rapport between the mediator and the disputants. It is after all part and parcel of the Mediator’s role to diffuse tension, to create the conducive environment for disputants, so that they are sufficiently relaxed and be in the mood to work out their differences.

Quality 3 – Persistence

It is not uncommon that by the time the disputants arrive at mediation, they may have had prior stabs at negotiating a settlement amongst themselves. The mediation process can be more challenging in such cases. A difference can be made through the appointment of a mediator who has a quality of being generous with time and effort. Someone who is just plain persistent. Such temperament in the mediator is called upon so as to keep parties being engaged in continual conversation. This is especially important when negotiation fatigue starts to set in. Being generous with time and effort, the ability to drive parties to keep the conversation going in the face of impasse, can make all the difference. Again, the aim is really to give the disputants the sufficient space and time to work out their differences. It has been suggested that a mediator is, at heart, a cheerleader. There is some truth in this. A good mediator knows that he needs to be a source of encouragement to keep the disputants working together to find a solution.

How to get started on the search for candidates

A good starting point in your search for a candidate is to spend some time reflecting on your dispute. Start by crafting a brief outline of how the dispute arose and where parties are at present, whether at the cusp of commencing litigation or perhaps after exchanging settlement proposals. Keep the outline broad and succinct. Leave out the names of parties, or keep other sensitive materials or information confidential, if you are uncomfortable to disclose more at this infant stage of your search. There is no need for such details in this outline.

Once such a brief outline is prepared, you are in the position to reach out to mediation institutions. Or you may want to send queries to mediation groups, these being groupings of mediators who market their services under an umbrella brand.  There are also private individuals (private mediators) who cultivate a business in mediation without association to any mediation institutions. You may want to consider them instead.

Suggestions in your search for a good mediator

If you have elicited a few responses from potential candidates, then the next phase involves the gathering of enough information to help you select the right candidate for your case. Here are some suggestions on the information that you may want to gather or the factors to consider:

 

Frequently asked questions about selecting a Mediator

Question #1: Is it part of the mediator’s role to help parties evaluate their dispute?

Unless otherwise specified, the mediator will not enter into the realm of evaluating the parties’ dispute. However, if parties so desire for the mediator to provide a neutral evaluation, this ought to be specified at the outset prior to engagement. Parties themselves should agree to the issues in dispute to be referred for neutral evaluation. And the mediator needs to be aware and agree to do so at the time of his/her appointment. 

Question #2: In what situations would appointing two mediators be useful instead of a single mediator?

For highly complex disputes that demand technical knowledge or know-how from multiple disciplines, the parties may consider it useful to engage the assistance of two mediators. It is not an uncommon practice for two persons to co-mediate so as to better guide the disputants in areas that either is familiar with or have prior experience in.

Question #3: Are there any advantages in appointing a mediator who is legally trained or perhaps had served as a judge before?

As the mediator’s role is not that of a legal adviser, there ought not to be any advantage in appointing a mediator who is legally trained, be it a lawyer or retired judge. This is particularly so when the disputants are accompanied by their lawyers in the mediation session. Having said this, however, it is not uncommon for parties to gravitate towards mediators emanating from the legal profession. Much depends on the comfort level of the disputants and their perception of the intangible qualities the particular mediator can bring into the negotiation discussion.


Have a question about mediation?

If you have any questions about mediation, you can get a Quick Consult with Adeline for a transparent, flat fee of S$49. You can expect a call back within 1-2 days on the phone to get legal advice and have your questions answered.


This article is written by Adeline Chong from Legal Ink Law Corporation and edited by Danon Gabriel The of Asia Law Network.

This article does not constitute legal advice or a legal opinion on any matter discussed and, accordingly, it should not be relied upon. It should not be regarded as a comprehensive statement of the law and practice in this area. If you require any advice or information, please speak to practicing lawyer in your jurisdiction. No individual who is a member, partner, shareholder or consultant of, in or to any constituent part of Interstellar Group Pte. Ltd. accepts or assumes responsibility, or has any liability, to any person in respect of this article.


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